I have been blessed to thrive well with HIV for over 16 years, become a proud uncle and continue to work at a satisfying job in recovery management administration.

-Haynes, positive since 1995

I would like to continue to improve the safety and quality of life for all transgender women, as well as educating society at large about this very targeted and at-risk community.

-Vivian, positive since 1997

When the time came for me to pick up my results, so many things were running through my head. I wanted a negative result, but I knew the chances were slim.

-Tree, positive since 2006

Don’t allow HIV/AIDS to win and take over your body. I fought back and took back my life.

-Jahlove, positive since 2001

Preventing HIV is important because nobody told me what it would be like to live with it, or that I could possibly get it. I just didn't know.

-Andrea, positive since 1998

Making the decision to go on meds was difficult and frightening, but I was very grateful that I became positive when I did and not ten years earlier, so that I even had the option.

-Darrell, positive since 2005

Since my diagnosis, I have been on a mission to bring about change and make a difference in the community.

-Chavon, positive since 2000

I had the courage to ask for help and help I got. I started attending support groups for women and I started getting information. I got educated and I got some hope.

-Annette, positive since 1999

Since finding out, I have been very open about my status with other people who we bring into our relationship.

-Al, positive since 1999

I became HIV positive when I was in high school and it changed my whole life.

-Jaszi, positive since 2005

Of all the people to whom I’ve disclosed, explaining to my daughter that she had HIV was probably the hardest.

-Jacqueline, positive since 1990

I chose the word victory because of all that I've overcome in my life only by the hand of God. The word victory means: "a success or triumph over an enemy in battle or war." Ephesians 6:12 talks about how we don't wrestle against flesh and blood, but against spiritual wickedness in high places. My battle belongs to the Lord, which means I've already won. I am victorious.

-Tinera, positive since 1998

I am all about helping and supporting my MSM community. Anything I can do to make it better - I will do.

-Mayo, positive since 2005

I discovered early on in my battle with full-blown AIDS that in order for me to live a long normal healthy life, I first had to be at peace with who I am. In order to fight back, I first had to accept myself. That gave me great peace with the will, determination and strength to fight back and to win. I now live a normal life, which is going to be long only because I am at peace.

-Richard, positive since 2007

Today my family knows all about me, and they still love me and treat me the same as when I was negative.

-Ben, positive since 2009

I am grateful to be here, for my friends who didn't make it this far, so that I can be the voice for them and the future.

-Lois, positive since 1984

I want to be an example to those who have it that you can have a full and healthy life, and empower them to LIVE. I want them to know that you can live with HIV but you don't have to die from it.

-Terrence, positive since 2008

My word kindness reflects me because I show kindness everywhere I go. I keep my mind not only on my struggles but on the struggles of people around me too.

-Marcus, positive since 2010

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Take a chance and get involved

Stevie

One of the best ways to get involved with HIV awareness and advocacy in your community is with the closest HIV Planning Council. The Body is a website with extensive HIV/AIDS resources on it, including neighborhood and community councils around the country. You can find that directory here (http://www.thebody.com/index/hotlines/other.html). Read more

If someone living with HIV/AIDS wants to become active in their community around awareness and advocacy, what are three tips you would suggest?

Lois

3 tips that I would provide someone looking to advocate:

1. Get to know your community resources.
2. Find a supportive agency that is in support of you, your status and HIV resources.
3. Be willing to share your story.

If someone living with HIV/AIDS wants to become active in their community around awareness and advocacy, what are three tips you would suggest?

Vivian

First of all make sure you educate yourself and get all the facts right because that’s very important. Second, I suggest attending community groups or social groups to try to spread the word carefully because some people can be bias. And my third tip is to attend different activities and health forums.